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life nowadays for mw

life is okay for me right now. i have learned to just stop complaining and just enjoy what i have right now.

i know i have to learn this lesson the hard way and sometimes i have to remind myself about it.

the only stressing me out right now is my job. the routine and the work is okay (eventhough it bores the shit out of me) but im really stressed out because my client said she'll pay me for a week's work.

and its friday night and she hasn't done it yet. she's nice and all and already asked me about the details on how she can pay but she hasn't done it yet.

im really stressed about this and pissed off because i want to use that money to relax this weekend.

and now i cant do that. i really hope she pays me this weekend. i know this is a new job and all but she told me she'll pay me for a week's worth.

shit.

anyway, this stress is making me have headaches again. tonight it was so bad that i threw up my dinner.

i think i need to have healthier choices in life now. eating shitty food, not enough sleep and not enough exercise plus stress is making me sick.

oh well...

happy thanksgiving to all of my american friends! keep on blogging!!!

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uniquely-learning said 6 months ago ...

It's hard to wait for a paycheck but you do need to learn some ways to distract you from stressing. Stressing about it doesn't help and it makes you sick. Did you call her and ask for the payment on friday? I know that sounds very aggressive, but a promise from an employer needs to be honored and she should have called if there was some problem.

queenparanoia said 6 months ago ...

you have to understand uni my line of work means that i only contact her through email. i emailed her today about it and told her about the pay. it just sucks because she said she would pay me Thursday actually but she hasnt done it yet :-( i already did what she asked me to do like give her the details on how she can pay me but she hasn't done it yet.

uniquely-learning said 6 months ago ...

Are you considering withholding any future work until she pays? I hope so. Her behavior is unacceptable.

queenparanoia said 6 months ago ...

uni: good news! she just emailed me and she send the money! it would take a few days but at least im getting paid. and yes i'll do that if she wont pay me

wombat said 6 months ago ...

Glad you came back to say you got paid--or will, rather. I do worry that you are under such stress that you get headaches and upset stomach. I hope you can get a handle on that and be ok.

queenparanoia said 6 months ago ...

wombat: yeah i got the money now. i guess im still adjusting to this new job. dont worry i'll be okay...

hegemone said 6 months ago ...

Glad you've gotten the money by now, hopefully your stress levels have gone way down as a result.

queenparanoia said 6 months ago ...

hegemone: i feel better now. :-)

scipio said 6 months ago ...

Don't stress out for the money. At your age think of the work as a learning experience. Money will come sooner or later - but the expereinced gained will be beneficial for you in the long run. When someone wants to delay the payment the usual excuse is - check is in the mail..

queenparanoia said 6 months ago ...

scipio: thanks for that advice...

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